Beautiful Moments Shared Together...: 2012

Friday, September 7, 2012

FOUR Years and Going STRONG!!

Today marks 4 years of our marriage. A day to remember and celebrate with joy!
It Was The Day u held my hand tight and promised that u will never let go of me no matter what. In these 4 years of marriage, we have had real bad moments and loads of wonderful moments; But, you never once let go of my hands till today as you promised and now, Dishanth's too!
It is a year with lots of improvements as compared to last year. We have learnt the true meaning of 'Two hearts becomes ONE'. As a wife, i couldn't be luckier than having you as my soul-mate.
Life is good today and lets pray to many more happiness in years to come!
CHEERS!!

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

2 Years in JB and Life IS Good!

It's been 2 years since we moved to Johor. We moved here when it was just the 2 of us and now we have an addition. Here we are, 3 as a family!
Life is good back here and we have no intentions of moving back to KL for now. Dishanth is 17 months old now and has started talking his first few words. We feel much better being here as we get the chance to explore new places every now and then.
Exploring Singapore is fun! The best for shopping and recreation. We have Desaru for weekends getaway. It's fun and affordable.

WHY do we need to move back to KL when the money, life and everything else is good back here in JB and SIngapore??

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Keep fights in your relationship fair

It's as inevitable as it can be - couples fight. No matter how much we tend to believe that a couple could get through life without arguing in a perfect scenario, it's very often not the case.

People have many differences, and differences can lead to disagreements. If you follow some simple guidelines for fighting fairly, however, you can ensure that you get through fights without creating worse problems in the relationship.

Hit it when it’s hot–don’t let it brew

It’s important to let your loved one know as soon as you can when a problem starts bothering you. The more you let the issue stew inside of you, the angrier that you will get. When you DO decide to talk about something you’ve kept inside, you tend to blow up and be really unfair to your loved one. A good guideline for ensuring that you can address the topic fairly is to not argue about anything that occurred 48 hours ago or earlier. Address the issue as soon as you can, and you stand the best chance of resolving the problem. If your loved one won’t talk to you about the issue, you should request that they set some time aside in the next 24 hours to talk about it. If therelationship is important enough, they will understand and usually will be glad you brought up the issue before it became too big of a problem.

Do not bring up matters from the past

When you get into a fight with a loved one, do your best to not drag matters from the past into the argument. If you can stick to the topic of what your disagreeing about, feelings are less likely to be hurt and more problems won’t arise. Any problems that you had with the person in the past are prologue when it comes to discussing an issue. Bringing them up will only put your loved one in a defensive mode, clouding the argument.

Do not be distracted

When talking about an issue that needs to be discussed, be sure that there are no distractions in the background to interfere with the mood. Be sure to not only listen to what your loved one has to say, but also be sure to note their body language. This way, you can both understand each others intentions more clearly and will be able to solve the problem more effectively.

One strategy that many couples tend to employ to help ease bad blood is to hold both hands while discussing the problem. This warm setting encourages comfort in both parties, ensuring that you aren’t out to hurt each others feelings.

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

What Makes Love and Marriage Last?

For so many years, we have been hearing its difficult to maintain a happy marriage. What they Fail to realize is that, a marriage involves TWO individuals and only the TWO of them.

Being IN love is easy. But why do so many people “IN love” not do the simple things required to help their relationship stand the test of time? Why do so many couples fail to make it long enough to celebrate Golden Anniversaries?

So what makes love and marriage last?
You don’t need complicated explanations from the so-called experts. Trust us on that.

Simple things we do in life makes world of a difference to your spouse. Few of the simple things you follow on a daily basis to maintain happiness and harmony at home.

These are the few steps we follow in our marriage and its going good so far....
...Remember birthdays and anniversaries.
...Say “thank you” and “please.”
...Tell your lover “I Love You” each morning and before you go to bed each evening.
...Help clean the table after dinner.
...Guys, put the toilet seat down after going!
...Gals, keep your make-up in a case, you don’t need the entire bathroom countertop.
...Go through the rituals of telling each other to
“Watch for people running stop lights,” “Watch for ice on the road,” “Be safe.”
...Call if you are going to be late.
...Help carry in the groceries and packages.
...Send your lover an email or call at least once a day to say you are thinking about them.
...Be more unselfish, it isn’t just about you.
...Give your lover at least a dozen hugs a day.
And the list goes on.

Try them... they do not cost you a single cent! =)

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Keys to a Happy Marriage

Almost every marriage starts out as a huge celebration. Together with their family and friends, each couple is full of hopes and dreams for their future life together. But the road to a happy marriage is far from easy. And as today’s divorce statistics demonstrate all too well, many couples opt not to complete the journey.

It would be easy to blame our high rate of marital failure on things like not spending enough quality time together, allowing bitterness and resentment to build in our hearts and failing to keep communication lines open. There’s no end to books, articles and seminars that tell you how to improve these and many other aspects of your relationship. But while quality time, forgiveness and communication are vitally important to creating a happy marriage, if such things aren’t happening, it’s usually a sign of a much deeper problem. And until this problem is addressed, no amount of external behavior modification will work.

Experiencing communication problems in your marriage? How often do you really focus on listening to what your partner (or God) has to say instead of insisting on more airtime? Feeling bitterness and resentment growing toward your partner? When was the last time you brought him or her before the Lord in prayer and truly thanked God for your relationship? Struggling to find quality time together? How about praying with your partner and asking God how he would like you to use your time?

As you begin to do these things, you’ll notice that your focus automatically starts to shift away from you and your desires and over to God and your partner. As a result, communication problems begin to improve, anger and resentment fade away and you naturally want to spend more time together. Of course, you can’t expect such changes to happen overnight. Your relationship is also bound to face financial pressures, childrearing issues and other problems that are beyond your control. But if you commit your relationship to God and make a conscious decision each day to put God and your partner first, your marriage will be able to weather any storm. Not only that; you’ll also have plenty of fun together along the way!

Have you struggled to find happiness in your marriage? Perhaps it’s time you and your spouse invited God to direct your relationship. If you would like to do so, we encourage you to pray the following:

"Dear God, thank you so much for bringing us together as a couple. We know that you have a plan and a purpose for our marriage, and we invite you to forgive the past self-centeredness, come into our lives and relationship and direct our steps from now on. Please give us the grace to put you and each other first every day. Make our relationship a blessing to others. But most of all; make it a blessing to you."

Something that i read and happy to share it out!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Less Than 10 Days Away!

The BIG 1 is going to be celebrated in less than 10 days time...
Party passes are out to most of the guests...
the preparations are going good so far and its getting busier now!

Dishanth has just started walking well since 25th of March 2012. Now, he enjoys walking more than crawling all over the house.. The funny thing is that, he looks like a penguin when he walks!
His baby talks are just so adorable... it can keep us going for the whole day!

Passes to Dishanth's Party!

Monday, March 19, 2012

Our Little PRINCE is 1!!!!

Its our little angel's birthday! he has just turned 1!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHELLA BOY!!

Birthday boy is asleep. mommy wished him, kissed him and hugged him repeatedly though he's asleep... hahahaha!
we still can't believe that he's a big boy now.... 1 whole year passed off just like that!
As they say, babies grow up even before we realize it.... is so true!

Dishanth is no longer a baby.... he is a toddler now! =)
he is heading to the temple first thing in the morning n then off to Singapore to celebrate his birthday with us. We feel blessed and overwhelmed for everything we have in our life today and especially this little munchkin! =)