Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Destiny...

Its been 5 wonderful years! Time surely flies... and everything that happened back on 25th January 2006 is still fresh in our minds!!

KLCC, Parkson, Chinoz, that cup of cappuccino, the long talk, the smile, the laughter, the well behaved stop @ Gasing hill, the drop off, bidding goodbye and good night and the whole phone conversation till 6am after a 5 hour date!

although life today has became so bz and hectic, we never fail to remember this date in the calendar which reminds us to recall back our 1st date and smile about everything that happened on that day!

We got to admit that these 5 years of relationship wasn't a bed of roses for us and we have seen the worse within a short period of time. But..... We manage to cross over all that painful moments and rough patches in our lives and still moving on with so much love and no regrets!

Who on earth would want to get on a 1st date with a girl and ask her hand in marriage on the very same day???? Well.... my husband did! The first reason he gave me to ask me out for a date was to know better about me cse he wanted to marry me knowing nothing about me! I was left speechless when he said that but couldn't explain the amount of happiness in me at that very moment (of course i had an eye on him too!).

Two and a half years of courtship was like the best thing ever! Going places to sneaking out of town for a quick holiday and all the lies for long holidays.... Hmmmmm.... it was so much fun! All those most romantic moments are still as fresh as ever! Makes us feel young and new whenever we think and talk about it. Bukit Tinggi, PD, Penang, Cherating, Perhentian, Genting are the few places we went on a romantic & fun getaway!!  And not forgetting India for our wedding shopping....

The few of the many photos during our dating days...

































Life after marriage was bliss! Everything felt perfect! Its nothing like being married to the love of your life and brag about it forever and ever! Moved into a beautiful home and spending each and every night together feeling like 'this is the moment we both have been waiting for!'. The best part is, we don't have to lie or be answerable to anyone for where we wanna go. All it needs is, get the leave, pack our bags n off we go! Cherating, Perhentian (yes, again to rekindle memories), Malacca, Phuket, Cameron Highlands, Penang, Langkawi, Singapore and many more places. Not to deny that PD and Malacca was the most visited ones!! Although we are married today and as they say, so many responsibilities to carry out, we are still the same or should i say closer now.

Awesome moments after marriage...

























The whole relationship feels as new as ever with so much love and care! we still kiss goodbye every morning and welcome home every evening... we still hug and kiss good night every single night without fail! We still laugh, tease, joke and talk about our early days of courtship and laugh like crazy nuts about it!

Today.... it’s been 5 years since we've known one another! Life has changed a lot today and the love for one another got stronger by day. We are confident enough that we will be saying the same thing even after another 5 years with one or two kids running around us! At that time, we call it a family!

Monday, January 17, 2011

Our baby at 31 weeks!

We were anxious to know whats happening since its been 4 weeks after my last follow-up with Dr Guna (DSH). So, we decided to see a doctor here in JB since we did not go back to KL for the weekend.
Not a very happy visit to the doc as their service was way below our expectations.
When I walked in to give an appointment, the nurse told me that they do not take in appointments, but we'll have to walk-in as early as possible to take the 'Q' number. I was very well disappointed, but had no choice and had to take the Q number at 4pm. The nurse requested to come in at 8pm to see the doc.

It was 7.45 p.m. and we took a drive to the clinic. Weight and pressure checked by the non-english speaking nurse (cina apek habis!!). the next thg she asked us, if we had gone to GH (General Hospital) for a urine test! FOR GOD SAKE, I AM 7 MONTHS PREGNANT NOW!!! and why GH of all places?? this wasn't my 1st visit there, and yet she can afford to ask me such a question after seeing my record?? haiz.... 

So yea, it was our turn to see the doc, walked into the consultation room, saw the doc... not so welcoming! he looked more like a strict school teacher than a friendly doctor. 
I gained 4kg plus in the last 4 weeks and he told me that its slightly over weight (alarrrrming!!!!).  after a few questions like if i am hvg any issues sort of stuffs, he asked me again,

Dr: So, u got anything u wanna ask me? anything that u want to know? 
I:  no
Dr: OK, so now lets see hows ur baby... 
(that's the part I was waiting for, but not with a doc like this!)
Dr: OK... this is ur baby's head, face, hands, buttocks... so, its a boy, this is the testicles and his 'kuku bird'. baby is well positioned, nothg to worry... ur baby too is slightly over weight (now, is that smthg that i m not suppose to be worried abt?) I think its fine cse u r tall n the baby is slightly longer than its usual measurement at this stage.

We r so not going back to this doctor again!!!!

The doc printed out my baby's face... awwwww...... n he looked so darn adorable even in that!



Our angel has got high cheek bones and a cute little chin!

Man.... can't wait till March!!!! 
   

Sunday, January 9, 2011

events planned for 2011....

Jan
- 5th yr love anniversary celebration
Feb
- Baby Shower (Valakapu)
March
- Arrival of Baby San!!!! & search for a name
April 
- Confinement, planning of the Full Moon party & Baby naming ceremony
May
- Full Moon party & mommy's 1st mother's day celebration with our prince!!
June
- Daddy's 1st Father's day with little prince!
July & Aug
- Nursing the little one & Adopting to changes!
Sept
- 1st wedding anniversary as proud parent!! & Honeymoon (an escape to Bali / Perhentian)!!!!
Oct & Nov
- Mommy starts her job hunting & baby san's 1st Deepavali
Dec
- Job Hunting continues & Baby's 1st Christmas! mommy n daddy's 1st birthday celebration with our little prince!!

Holiday! holiday! holiday!!!!

Welcoming 2011 with a Wide SMILE!!!

Although yr 2010 had a rough start... it ended very well for us! We did not expect the drastic changes in our lives within just 6 months.

Bad things that got us devastated in the 1st half of 2010:
- Handling our marital problems (was the worst ever in our lives)
- Having to lose my recruitement executive job!
- Having a pay cut in his Company (includes work force reduction & issues with his new boss)
- Financial problems
- Job Hunting (started looking for a better offer)
- etc

Good things that got us up & moving in the 2nd half of 2010:
- A success in our job hunting! (he got head hunted!)
- An offer from Singapore
- Promotion from being Husband and wife to becoming a Parent ( I got pregnant!!)
- Moving into a new place (JB that is!)
- A successful and stable job (kept him happy)
- Blood tests showed good results, baby was n still growing healthy =)
- A whole new lifestyle
- Financially got stable
- A new iPad!
- A new Canon EOS 550D
- Family got together
- etc....

So, its more like a happy ending as for 2010!!!

2011, we welcomed it with a wide smile on our faces!!! Not to deny that its gonna be a busy, hectic but an exciting year full of changes in both our lives.

We are still adopting to the changes we will have to handle. Busy preparing ourselves to accept a new family member... =)

We have no idea on what type of changes 2011 is holding for us.... for whatever it could be, we would be ready to handle it in the best way possible!! *hopefully*

29 weeks and counting...

Its now the 2nd trimester of my pregnancy. Life isn't all that bad, thgs are looking quite stable!
Love the life, loving the little one's kicking n movements...
Daddy is doing his job well in taking care of mommy =)... and baby refuses to move when daddy is around and wanting to feel him... =(

Tummy is now more visible and love the attention given by family!!
Gained 6kgs till to date since i got pregnant, and that is freaking me off!!

In less than 12 weeks time, the baby is gonna arrive!!!  The question is.... r both mommy n daddy ready for this moment?? we both are already freaking out!!!

CHECK: to-do list, to buy list, invitation n planning of the full moon celebration, etc.

In the midst of all these, mommy n daddy can still stay cool n welcome the new year with all the glow on our faces!!
 Good Bye 2010.... Welcome 2011!!!!